Never Do THIS in Your Relationship
A healthy relationship can change your life, bringing you so much joy, happiness, and confidence. If you're in a good, happy relationship, then you're probably used to bringing each other joy, support, and love. I'm so happy for you if that's the case.
Here's something that you have to realize if you're not in a relationship or in one that has some areas for improvement. That is, you can't change the other person. If there's something that annoyed you in a past or present relationship, you have to recognize that you manifested that person and all their quirks.
Trying to change someone for your comfort isn't going to work. Asking someone to change so that you can feel better isn't going to work. Keep your significant other great in your mind. The truth is, they are great you're just harping on the negative. Love is a two way street so you have to keep up your side of things as well as they are keeping up theirs. Work on the way you think of your partner and watch your relationship grow.