You’ve been dating regularly, but it’s been going—well, poorly. You can’t seem to settle down with anyone, and no one seems interested in you. Feeling frustrated? I don’t blame you! Read on for some tips to help you step up your dating game in 2020.
Step Up Your Dating Game in 2020
Raise Your Standards- If you drop everything, just to answer their texts, take a moment. Is this person really worth your time? You know what I mean. Do you think this person drops everything for you? Are they communicative? Maybe take a moment. Don’t reach out first. You’re a commodity—show them. Boundaries are normal. Use them when it comes to dating in 2020.
Have a Life- Seriously! When someone is too available to you, it’s such a turn-off–the same goes for when you’re available all the time. Find yourself some hobbies, or try to make new friends. Make yourself a priority in your life, so you seem a little more mysterious to the people that you date. Seem busy by becoming busy and watch your life become more fulfilled.
Try Sober Dating- I know, but hear me out. When drinking on dates, we tend to make decisions about people we normally wouldn’t make. It also amplifies feelings. Try a coffee or a brunch date! Go on a bike ride. Make things more interesting without bringing alcohol into the equation.
Be Your Best Self- Think of a situation where your best self comes out. Could it be a game night or Topgolf? Doing this takes the pressure off and makes you feel like you’re on top of your game. It gives you a chance to be more present, so you’re more aware of what your guy brings to the table.