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01 July 2011

Long Distance Relationships...Is It Worth The Time?

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Social media along with the abundance of dating sites has enabled love seekers to bring the dating scene to their intimate spaces, while conserving with potential mates all over the world.  Modern technology has empowered society with the needed tools to smoothly carry out a successful long distance relationship.  Through text, Facebook, Twitter, Skype and phone chat apps many long distance relationships have a better success rate. However, the question remains, are those tools enough to truly sustain a long distance relationship and it worth the time?

With any relationship, nurture is a key priority. With the balancing of careers, family, and friends, there is an inevitable strain that occurs when laying a foundation in a relationship. Couple who live in the same neighborhood, city, or state have a difficult time committing to schedule time. With a long distance relationship, because of the lack of direct physical contact, connection through constant communication must overcompensate for what is not available. Although you may absolutely adore speaking with your potential significant other, it can become quite time consuming as well as mentally and emotionally taxing. For some couples, they literally schedule their lives around chat time, unintentionally placing other priorities on the back burner. 

Long distance relationships can work just as couples who live within close proximity to each other. If considering exploring a relationship with someone states away or world's apart, realize that you will need to invest time, and more time. It is not easy to be far from the person you love. Your emotions and your head will have to be able to withstand the distance and be in the right mental space. With diligence and determination, you can have a loving relationship.

Last modified on 02 July 2011

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Tim Mezen 2011-07-02 13:24
I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4 months, we are in absolute love. we talk on the phone 3-6 hours every night, we have flown to see each other every other month. i live in WA. she lives in TN, i am making the leap of faith, in two weeks i am moving to TN. i am getting an apt. i want to spent everyday day with her before any more major commitments. i love this woman, she has turned barney stinson into ted mosby.
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